Povedite mi o času, ko ste upravljali s težavnim ali zahtevnim deležnikom.

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To preverja **upravljanje z deležniki**: ali se lahko obnašate strokovno, dosežete skrite potrebe pod zahtevami in ohranjate produktivno razmerje? Uporabite **STAR** in poudarite empatijo ter meje.

## Kako se lotiti naloge

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1. Separate the stated demand from the real need (ask "what problem does this
   solve for you?")
2. Make tradeoffs visible — show cost, not just "no"
3. Communicate proactively and in writing
4. Find a win that respects both their goal and reality
```

## Praktični primer

```text
S: A product owner kept adding "urgent" features mid-sprint.
T: The team was thrashing and morale was dropping.
A: I met with him, mapped each request to a business goal, and showed a simple
   board of what each addition pushed out. I offered a fast-track lane for one
   true emergency per sprint.
R: Churn dropped, he felt heard, and we hit our next three sprint commitments.
```

## Dobro vs šibko

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✓ Empathy + visible tradeoffs + boundaries
✗ Just saying yes to everything
✗ Treating the stakeholder as the enemy
```

## Zakaj je to pomembno

Večina trenja z deležniki izhaja iz neuslišanih potreb, ne iz slabih namenov — iskanje prave potrebe to razreši.

Vidnost kompromisov iz "ne" naredi skupno odločitev namesto boja.

Lahko upravljanje teh razmerij je pogosto tisto, kar ločuje inženirja srednje ravni od starejšega.